试论正确处理秘书与领导者之间关系的艺术

摘   要

秘书与领导之间，是1种主辅关系、同志关系、亦师亦友的关系。秘书正确处理与领导的关系，首先要遵从4个原则：秘书要尊重领导，维护领导的权威；秘书人员要服从领导，但服从又不同于盲从；秘书要敢于讲出自己的不同见解；秘书要适应领导，注意发挥领导的长处。其次要注意4大禁区：秘书不能忘记自己的身份，从“幕后”窜到“前台”；秘书不要介入领导的家务事；不要揣摩领导的心思；秘书决不能参与领导的权力之争。
关键词：秘书与领导；关系；处理艺术；4个原则；4大禁区

ABSTRACT

The relation between secretary and leader likes that of master and assistant, that of comrades, that of the teacher and friend. To handle the relation with the leader correctly, first the secretary should comply with four principles: Respect the leader, and safeguard the leaders authority; Obey the leaders order, but not follow he/she blindly; Be brave enough to tell your own opinions; Be accustomed to the leader, and try to make the leader display his/her strong points. second the secretary should also pay attention to four major forbids : Never participate in government and political affairs ,unconsciousness of his/her " supporting role "; Mustnt get involved in the leaders domestic matters; Dont try to figure out the leaders attention ; Mustnt get involved in the leaders battle for power .
Key words: Secretary and leader; Relation; The art of handling relationship;
Four principles; Four major forbids